Saturday, December 21, 2013

The True Reality of Reality TV

Martha Graham once said “What people in the world think of you is really none of your business.”  That may be a little harsh but there is a stark reality to it.  Last week, Phil Robertson, one of the "actors" on the reality show "Duck Dynasty" was suspended by his network because of something he said about his beliefs regarding sin in a GQ interview.  Have we reached the point in our society where a man answers a direct question about his believes and will not come under fire?

Last week, GQ released the interview with Robertson where he says that, and I am paraphrasing here, that homosexuality is "sinful".  It could be said that he compared homosexuality to bestiality.  I did not read it that way but I can see where it could get deciphered that way.  Soon after the comments went public the cable channel A&E suspended Robertson from his show.  A&E felt that the feelings of the public were more important than their star's opinion.  If the outraged masses actually read the article that offended them so much they would have seen a man that was very religious.  His religious overtone was so much that he refers to himself as a "Bible-thumper".

To be honest, I have never watched the show, probably never will.  It just doesn't appeal to me.  The fact that it has been on for five seasons just proves to me the state of television.  But that is immaterial to what is going on.  The man is spewing his religious beliefs on the world and is reciting his literal meaning if the Bible.  Why is he doing it?  Because he can.  There 14 million weekly viewers that tune in and hang on every word this man says.

This is not a First Amendment issue.  The government is not censoring Robertson, his employer is.  I do find it very funny that the liberal media is dismissing Robertson's freedom of speech and religion in this case, but when people were breaking laws, defecating in public and costing municipalities millions of dollars, it was a First Amendment triumph.  Time magazine went as far as naming "The Protestor" Person of the Year.  As unfortunate as it is, there are probably more people who agree with Robertson than the "Occupiers".  But as I stated earlier, it's not about the First Amendment.

I have no personal opinion about homosexuality other than I am not one.  Do I think it's a sin? "He without sin, cast the first stone” My only view on it is that it does not affect my life one iota.  I have grown up with gay friends and have friends who have gay parents and it does not faze me in the least.  It's a lifestyle I do not live and I respect those who live it.  The only thing I ask in return is to respect me as well, and that has never been a problem.

But this situation is not about if homosexuality is a sin or not, it has just been brought to the forefront to ignore the true issue.  The interviewer asked a loaded question and knew exactly the response he was going to get.  That is good journalism.  It is more troubling that the media made this a homosexual issue, because it is clearly not.  If this is truly homosexuality or hate issue then the network would have not have to do anything, the viewing public would have taken care of it.  If A&E was so distraught about moral fiber, then why are they running a "Duck Dynasty" Marathon on Christmas Eve and Christmas Day?  They do know that Robertson will be in those episodes, right?  It’s all about the dollars.  Robertson has the right to say what he said and A&E has the right to terminate him for it.  But they shouldn't do it half way.  They shouldn't take the moral high ground and then look at the bottom line and waver on it.  It is not sending a clear message.  Actually it is not sending a message at all.

As a society we are taking television too literally.  If these types of outrage about television were prevalent when I was growing up then "All in the Family" would not have gotten past the second episode.  "The Jefferson's" would never be "movin on up" because of George's references to white people as "honkies".  What would have been made of Klinger on "M.A.S.H" who cross dressed to get sent home from Korea?  Yes people, he was referring to it as a sickness.  Add a "reality" factor it and it makes for un-watchable television.

Nobody should be surprised by what Robertson said.  If you are, then I suggest you pay attention to what you are watching.  In that same article he also stated that blacks were happier in the south during the 60's.  He also stated that squirrel meat is the best kind of animal meat there is. This man is obviously an old school, Bible belt, Southern redneck, we should not be shocked for a second by anything he says.   For my homosexual friends I will leave you with this passage from Matthew 5:39 "But I say unto you, that ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also."

In closing I leave you with the words of Les Brown "Someone's opinion of you does not have to become your reality"

3D
If you don't take it from me, ask my wife

Monday, December 2, 2013

Violent Friday

Thanksgiving!  A time to be thankful for all the good things that have happened to you during the past year.  The time to get together with family and eat a giant cooked bird that you normally don't eat unless it is Thanksgiving.  A time to sit and watch your local high school play its rival in football then fall asleep in front of the three pro football games on TV that day. It is also a time to beat up a fellow patron at your local Wal-Mart at 3:00 am to get that last PlayStation that will most likely be available again in a day or two.  What a great holiday.

So the last comment truly isn't what Thanksgiving is about, at least I hope not for you.  I just don't get the madness that comes with all this.  Luckily in Massachusetts the stores aren't allowed to open Thanksgiving, but opening up at midnight doesn't make it any better.  If you are on social media and noticed people chiding Wal-Mart for opening on Thanksgiving and making their employees work the holiday.  The same people applauded Sam’s Club for not opening, so I guess it's a wash for the Wal-Mart Corporation.  

If people want to be away from their families, or wake up at some un-Godly hour in the name of savings, who am I to judge.  I choose not to do it and I am still able to complete my Christmas shopping within my budget.  That's just me I guess.  But do these things need to resort to violence that was reported on the news?  Now these stores are forcing local authorities to beef up their staffs during these times because people don't know how to behave themselves accordingly.

According to a website mocking this tradition called www.blackfridaydeathcount.com, there have been seven deaths and ninety injuries related to Black Friday since 2006.  One of the deaths was this past Friday when a teen driving home from shopping fell asleep at the wheel.  That is definitely a tragic ending to a perfect holiday.  Four passengers were also hurt in that crash.

  • In Rialto, California a police officer was sent to the hospital with a broken wrist when he was trying to break up one of three fights at a Wal-Mart that police responded too.
  • At a Walmart in Claypool Hill, Va. a man allegedly threatened another man with a firearm and then cut that man's arm with a knife "down to the bone," according to reports.  This man felt the need to bring a gun AND a knife to Black Friday shopping. 

In Philadelphia two couples got it a brawl at the mall, over god knows what, that had to be subdued by a stun gun.

Like I stated earlier I am not going to judge people that do this, it's just not for me.  I do find it funny that people complain about the lack of sleep and the craziness that goes on at these things.  To be honest I don't need to go Black Friday shopping, I get a blow by blow recap on social media of all the events.  I read them as I drink my morning coffee.

As we go into the Christmas Shopping season please be careful and if getting that last X Box One means having to fight for it, just let it go and move on.

3D

If you don't take it from me, ask my wife.





Monday, November 11, 2013

Thank A Vet!

I will have to admit that I have written this article before and I am going to write it again and probably not change much.  It's not because I am lazy or have run out of material it's because I like to honor the same people on the same day every year.  Over the years I have grown to respect our military more and more each year.  When I was a kid, it was a day off from school.  When I was a teenager, it helped me research my love of history.  When I was a twenty something hit closer as people I knew where now soldiers.

Our military deserves our support, right wrong, or indifferent.  These brave men and women volunteer to take a job to defend this great nation.  They should be commended, not condemned.  That is all I have to say about the respect our military deserves, because most Americans feel the same way I do.  As I normally do each year I want to thank these specific individuals for their service and everything they have done for this country.  If you would like to add someone to my annual list please drop me a message, I would love to honor them

Timothy MacCartney Sr. - United States Army
Timothy MacCartney Jr. - United States Army
Ron Scarborough Sr. - United States Air Force
Michael Scarborough - United States Air Force
Ron Scarborough Jr. - United States Marine Corp
Derek Gordon - United States Marine Corp.
Cary MacCartney - United States Army
Craig Tomanini - United States Army
Jill Murray Wildt - United States Marine Corp.
Sam Wildt - United States Navy
Don Mason - United States Army
Eric Catalanotti - United States Army
Robert Catalanotti - United States Army
Justin LaMonda - United States Marine Corp.
Denny Brigley - United States Army
John Finneron - United States Army - P.O.W. World War II
David Layman - United States Navy
Dan Thibodeau - United States Marine Corp.
Kim-Cameron King - United States Marine Corp.
Mary McCue - United States Marine Corp.
Rusty Williamson - United States Navy
Nick Fortunato - United States Navy
Paul Dell'ovo - United States Air Force
Paul Vigneault - United States Navy
DJ Gentile - United States Coast Guard
Glenn Peacock - United States Coast Guard

Thank you!

3D
If you don't take it from me, ask my wife